The main reason that I created my business The Feminine Energy Guide ™️ was because I was constantly in my masculine energy. I was always on the go and in DOING mode.

I would never allow myself to just stop and relax, I always felt like I had to be doing something and in control of everything. And the word surrender(which I now have tattooed on my wrist) just meant weakness to me.

I knew things needed to change. My anxiety was through the roof and I was constantly burning out. I was self medicating with drink and drugs to try and calm my mind, which just made things worse, I was a proper mess.

So I started looking into ways that helped me understand myself, my body, my mind and on a spiritual level too (I fucking LOVE the woo) and to introduce things into my life that allowed me to find balance.

To find comfort and be kinder to myself and to slow the fuck down occasionally to catch my breath and be present in the amazingness of what was actually happening. Instead of pushing through and moving so fast everything felt like a blur.
 
But masculine energy is equally as important, especially in our business.

The masculine energy represents the foundations, the strategy, the structure and the GETTING SHIT DONE, so we neeeeeeeed to have that part of us accessible, but not to the point where we burn out because we’re constantly pushing ourselves.

The masculine provides the grounded stability and safety, in which we can then allow the feminine energy to feel safe to create and flow. 

Our feminine energy is that deep inner knowing we feel when we silence the noise of the world around us. When we allow ourselves to FEEEEEEL into what feels right, to stop overthinking everything and start to trust the niggles and the signs that are guiding us towards our true destinations in life.

It’s our natural internal compass. It is our most beautiful gift and if we can just surrender needing to be in control and allow ourselves to tap into the pull and be guided by what we KNOW deep inside, truely magical things start to happen.

Feminine energy is also strong, she’s not passive, but assertive in a gentle (don’t fuck with me) type of way.

Everyone has their own version, but for me it’s a feeling. A feeling of just being, not forcing, feeling safe, feeling creative and excited by life. And feeling so full of love and abundance I want to share it with everyone, but not in a pee glitter way 💖🤩💦✨in a sisterhood and empowerment way. Like we are all connected.

Start listening to your gut when you are making decisions in your business, because deep down you KNOW you have all the answers. That initial feeling you get is normally never wrong is it? We just need to NOTICE it and believe it!

How can you create space for yourself today to reconnect to your feminine energy? 🤍

Leaning back into your own gentle alignment.

How DO YOU slow down?

Is it going for a walk 🌳
hiding your phone📱 or laptop 💻
reading a book 📕
pulling some cards 🎴
writing ✍🏻

I would love a picture of what you choose to do if this has resonated with you? 🙂