Have you ever stopped and realized how fast time moves? One day, you're caught up in the little things, the daily routines, the deadlines, the distractions. Then, before you know it, years have passed. The moments you thought would last forever become distant memories.

But here’s the thing, time doesn’t wait. It doesn’t slow down for us to catch up. It keeps moving. And if we’re not intentional, we can blink and realize we missed what really mattered. One thing I have realized now in my 50s is that time is our most valuable asset, treasure it and the people that you allow to be a part of it./ 

Not all good things are always good, life has a way of surprising us. What seems good at the moment may not always turn out to be so great. And sometimes, what feels like a setback is a blessing in disguise. Relationships, opportunities, and choices, all come with lessons. Some are beautiful, others are painful, but each one shapes us into who we are.

The key is to embrace life as it comes, understanding that every experience, good or bad, is part of the bigger picture. We can’t hold onto bitterness, regret, or the weight of things we cannot change. That’s why forgiveness matters.

Forgiveness is a gift to give yourself. If you have a good family, one that’s still within reach, don’t take that for granted. Life is too short for grudges and too unpredictable to assume there will always be another time. Sometimes, it’s hard to be the one to reach out, but pride is a heavy burden. Forgiveness isn’t about pretending things never happened, it’s about choosing peace over resentment.

Not everyone gets to have a supportive family, but if you do, hold onto that. Say what needs to be said. Make the call. Have the conversation. Love loudly.

Love Is Unconditional, A Mother’s Perspective

My perspective from a mother's unconditional love. As a mother, I can tell you this, my love for my children is unconditional. No matter where life takes them, no matter what they go through, that love never wavers. It doesn’t mean we don’t have disagreements, or that everything is always perfect. It means that, through it all, love remains.

That’s the kind of love that stands the test of time, the love that isn’t transactional, that isn’t based on convenience, that doesn’t fade when things get hard. And if you’re lucky enough to have that kind of love in your life, recognize it. Nurture it. Don’t wait until time runs out to appreciate what’s always been there. When I became a mom at a very young age I realized a love that was like no other, I also realized what my mom's love was really like. 

RememberSome Things and People Are Temporary

Remember that some people and things are only temporary. You’ve heard the sayings about people coming into your life for a season or a reason. Not everyone is meant to stay, and that’s okay. Some friendships, relationships, and experiences are temporary. They serve their purpose, teaching us something, and helping us grow, and then they move on.

Letting go of what’s temporary makes room for what’s lasting. Trying to hold onto people who were only meant to be in your life for a short time can weigh you down. Instead, recognize the gift of those moments, be grateful for the lessons, and keep moving forward.

Family is forever, through all of life’s changes, one thing remains: family. Whether it’s through genetics, deep bonds, or the legacy you create, family is the foundation that lasts beyond time. If you have a great one, cherish it. Don’t let distractions, pride, or busyness pull you away from those who are truly in your corner.

Family isn’t just about blood, it’s about connection, support, and a love that withstands the storms of life. If you have people who have always been there, who have seen your highs and lows and still stand by you—treasure them.

Treasure the ones that stay, we cross paths with so many people in life. Some are there for a season, some only for a moment, and then there are the rare few who stand the test of time. They are the ones who have been there through the highs and the lows, the wins and the struggles, the laughter and the tears.

True relationships are not about convenience. They are built on trust, on showing up, on weathering storms together. They aren’t just for a phase, not just for a fun night out or a few good years. They last.

If you have people like that in your life, the ones who never wavered, who stood by you even when things got messy, treasure them. They are the rarest gift.

Time flies. It always does. But what we do with that time is what makes the difference. Love deeply. Forgive freely. Hold onto the ones who have always been there. Because at the end of the day, the only thing that truly lasts is the love we give and the connections we cherish.

Don’t wait. Reach out. Say the words. Be present. Because time is moving, and the best moments of your life are the ones you choose to embrace right now.