Report building is a great life skill to have right ?
It helps to build trust connection. It’s the foundations to any relationship weather personal or professional.
But what if I told you educated and professional coercive controller’s are masters at report building…..
They can walk into a room and they are the type that has all eyes on them and they hold an audience.
Well when persuading a romantic relationship this is no different. Report building is their secret weapon to building safety with their victim.
The quicker they can drop your guard the more effective the data gathering process is and the love bombing tactics are so when they shift in behaviour starts to present itself you are easy pray to send you into a whirlwind of confusion causing you to look internally as to why they may have changed so dramatically.
So when people say why didn’t you spit the love bombing signs even the most astute will be caught off guard by the effective report building.
Listen to the video I share a personal story from my dating experience where a police officer landed in my inbox. Built strong report from his data gathering prior to studying my profile and we dated for a short time.
Fortunately I had the knowledge I did so as the behaviour started to shift I could act and pull away immediately.
This is the power of being armed with this knowledge.
So you don’t have to be currently in an abusive relationship for my new resource to benefit you, it will benefit anyone who is currently dating, if you have kids.
Infact someone told me today that they knew someone who went to prison for 4 weeks for stalking. They were simply trying to win their ex back but because it was not wanted it constituted as a criminal offence and they didn’t even realise it.
So this is as much to educate your sons as well as your daughters
