And this is why ladies the resource I have released is a must for anyone going through the criminal and family court system.

Please don’t leave yourself open to these double standards.

Gold rules when dealing with a high conflict ex partner…

No name calling out loud or publicly ….. you’re welcome to think and call them whatever you like in your own head.

No posting videos, recordings or pics of your ex as a plot to intentionally expose and identify them. ….. unless they are formally charged and sentenced in a criminal court this is slander and could get you into trouble.

Even when things go to CPS where there is enough evidence most of the time to prove beyond reasonable doubt. If they Nfa the charge in their report they will never disclose the identity of your ex. They will remain the suspect.

if you are talking about your story / experience and still go by your married name then refer to them as just your Ex.
Again the surname association could identify them to people who don’t already know you as a couple and already aware of the issues.

Remember in the eyes of the law they are innocent until they decide they are guilty.

delete any pictures on your socials of the abuser if they have not been formerly charged and sentenced. We do not want any link back to the perpetrator on our socials.

And remember the family and criminal arena is separate.

It doesn’t matter what recognition you have via the family court. Unless they are made accountable in some way via the criminal court via a guilty charging decision….. they still remain innocent in the eyes of the law 

 and remain legally factual and evidence based. And my new resource will empower you with the skills to effectively advocate for yourself through this awful process.

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