#TopTipTuesday
Yesterday I did a video on TikTok about what constituted as a sexual related offence that a lot of people would usually associate as being.
And I was meant with a barrage of comments from toxic men who very clearly do not understand what mutual consent is.
So my top tip this week is ….
It’s really important for all parents to talk to their children about mutual consent in an intimate relationship.
And this isn’t just about what verbally communicated. If they sense any resistance from their partner, they must communicate and if their partner is still not forthcoming in communicating and they still sense their energy is off…… then do not continue.
And if they say yes and then later change their mind, this is not leading someone on necessarily
Theres a big difference between leading someone on and being submissive.
Often if someone is being abused, they will submit and agree to partake in a sexual act as a means of managing escalation or avoiding abuse. It’s the classics Stockholm syndrome.
But even if there is no coercive control or abuse. Women are more inclined to please their partner as a means of avoiding abandonment and to just feel loved and desirable.
This is why it’s important to read the signs.
Remember 6 days until my resource is released. Which will assist you when it comes to keeping your kids safe from either being victim of abuse or engaging in an abuse related offence.
