Hey Heart of Orgasmic Wonder Shine!

What better way to start the new year than with How you can live your most ORGASMIC life?! 

The science of PLEASURE and the nervous system FASCINATES me, and I hope that after connecting here for today's blogpost, it will fascinate you too, and you will come along with me over the next few weeks of January 2024 to discover how you can live your most orgasmic life!

 One of the most painful things that I hear in my practice is just how many of you loathe pleasure, because:

1. You believe that you are just too broken 

2. You are convinced that you are totally anorgasmic.

3. You can not differentiate pleasure from pain

4. Pleasure terrifies you because of unintegrated sexual and pelvic trauma

5. You don't know how to ask for what you want…

6. HOLD UP…You don't even know what you want

7. You have no boundaries

8. You know how to give pleasure, but not receive pleasure

9. You are deeply ashamed of your body

10. You believe that your prolapse means you will never experience pleasure again

11. Since healing past wounding in relationships you are no longer sexually attracted to your partner

12. Religious/social/cultural/conditioning has you in shame and shutdown.

Sadly, the list for pleasure loathing is seemingly endless! 

One of the hardest, but hopefully empowering things that you will hear back from me is:… YOUR PLEASURE IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. (I know that can land with a holy thud, let me explain…)

 I believe that discovering your orgasmic nature is one of the greatest and most liberating ADVENTURES that you could ever have! 

Coming into deep connection with your orgasmic nature is a way of discovering the deepest most creative and soulful parts of yourself, your capacity and your potential for pleasure itself!

I find that the way that you experience orgasm really mirrors the way that you are able to interact and genuinely engage with life…

1. How much can you be in the present moment? Like really exquisitely scrying and sensing the tantalising ripple of air on your elbow presence? Or are you on autopilot, completely unaware of your orgasmic elbow potential?! Chasing clitoral build, to a peak and a bleak and unfulfilling drop off?

2. How much can you surrender to your orgasmic nature…and REEAALLLLy live life how you truly desire- authentically??? -Like do you actually wear the ridiculous silver boots that your womb whispered you buy that time you were ovulating in a shoe shop 10 years ago, because they make you inner-smilegasm at their impractical beauty?! Or are they hidden in the shoe box, waiting for the ‘when I’m orgasmic' future, braver, thinner, sexier, shinier, more confident you? (Yes, I confess!)

3. Do you access your orgasmic shine and say “no” enough in respect of your energy, time, capacity and boundaries? Or do you contract back into the conditioning of the ‘good girl/one’ narrative and say yes, people-please, and exhaust your energy by bridging the gap incessently?

4. How much can you engage in life, relationships with yourself and others, and actually out loud NAME YOUR PLEASURE needs?

5. How much can you show up for whatever emotions/sensations/beliefs arise for you moment by exquisite moment, and work with them to liberate yourself you into deeper and higher states of LOVE, SAFETY AND BELONGING?!

You deserve an ORGASMIC life Beloved!!!

That's why I believe that all effective sexual and pelvic healing calls on the power of intentional pleasure as a key to supporting you to truly transform your relationship to your sexuality, your body, your pelvic bowl, your eros.  

PLEASURE is a portal to rewiring outdated and disrupted neural networks that keep you stuck in limiting beliefs, restrictive conditioning and your sexual shame, pelvic pain and shut down.  

Pleasure, genuine embodied, deep to the core of who you are pleasure. -Well that type of pleasure is nervous system work!

It's also why I have an entire and extensive juicy module in my compassionate 9-Month 1-1 somatic, mythic and poetic sexual healing journey: The Spell of The Sensuous utterly devoted to The Anatomy of Arousal and The 3 phases of Orgasmic Development.  

So there is so much to consider in this topic, and we won't get to it all in one go, but thats part of the adventure right?! But what are we going to look at over the course of the next few weeks this January?

wk 1: Intro Orgasmic Life Cycles

wk 2: What is The Window of Tolerance?

wk 3: What has your Window of Tolerance got to do with your Orgasms?

wk 4: What are the 3 Phases of Orgasmic Development? 

Bonus: Orgasmic dysfunction

I'm really excited to explore this with you, DM any questions, wonderings, insights. I am really invested in crafting community space with you here!

I also want to add that the new year messaging can so often be: live your best life, become this, do that, go, go, go! My hope for us here as cyclical beings is to embrace where we are in our rhythms. For those of us in the northern hemisphere our rhythms are inextricably bound to our wintering. True orgasmic education works with the beauty of this, of where we are in our orgasmic cycles, so starting with the window of tolerance may not sound so super sexy, but I promise you that when it comes to the full potential of your orgasmic nature, safety, embodied safety is everything!

Here are 3 easy call to action steps for you to join in:

1: Like and comment on this blogpost!

2: sign up to the email list:https://www.pelvicpriestess.co.uk/subscribe

3: Join me LIVE on insta: @pelvic.priestess January 8th 2pm

With Love and Devotion,

Aurora