What do you do when you don't know what to do?

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Are you in a place where you feel you aren't in control of you life (personal, work or business). What can you do when you don't know what to do?

About 3 years ago I found myself in a place I had never been before.

My worklife felt like it was out of my control, I had no energy to work in my NWM business and I had no resilience at home, so if my children decided to change plans at the last minute (which, of course, they did all the time), I felt like I just couldn't cope with it and would get completely emotional.  I spent a lot of time feeling lost and upset.

In that moment, did I ask for help?

Absolutely not!

And why not?  Because these were my problems, I had brought them on myself and I couldn't expect other people to pull me out of that hole.

Does any of that ring true to you?

If it does, please know that you are not alone.

If it does, what can you do?

Well again, in the moment, you might not be able to make good decisions (or indeed any decisions) so whatever you can do, that is what you need.  If you are only able to keep functioning by continuing to take one second of your day at a time, then for your own sake, that is what you can do.

If, however, you are at the stage where you can't be in that position any more and you want to change, then I (or someone like me) can help you see the wood from the trees.

Working through my own stresses and burnout have given me the freedom to come back to myself again.  I want that for you and I want you to know that it can be done because I have done it.

I am here when you are ready.

 

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Judith Oatley 19 C

Brilliant, asking for help is huge. I have totally seen a change in you recently which is fabulous, well done x

   
Author Kyra Lennon 19 C

I've been there, but thankfully, I managed to turn it around! <3

   
Dannicole Designs Resin 19 C

Wow!! When I read this, I felt like I had written it. There have been so many times I have felt like this and become overwhelmed with everything. I have cried and not known why I was crying on so many occasions, and like yourself, I struggled with changes in plans or any kind of change that I was not in control of.